what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

I had read a small article that comes at the end of ,THE BIG BANG THEORY,something regarding the topic so a part of the idea for the writing goes to it. A friend of mine recently told me what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.I had heard this a number of times in the past and never once gave much thought to it other than a passing glance to it.Well over the past few months having experienced a bit of the pain part in my life,am I stronger or better,hmmm lets see,no I am neither of both,but definitely I am changed may be a bit bitter,angrier and cynical and yes I don't sweat over things.some things that were a big deal a few months,now don't seem to bother me much.Problems are seen relatively,a bigger problem makes all the other problems seem like a walk in the park.So when life takes a turn in path never foreseen its just a friendly reminder that we might think we might be playing the starring role in our life when actually we might be  the guy helping the old lady cross the road in the background of the screen.So yes, problems do bring a new perspective,a new approach and definitely makes you cranky,stronger,pissed off,stronger,grumpy,STRONGER. It may be a while but I will get there.